Joaquin Ames has been on the planet for about 5 years now and he loves to wear costumes - so much in fact that our recent meetup in San Diego was one of the few times we've hung out where he wasn't in full suit (his mom wouldn't let him go swimming in his Darth Vader getup!) I met Jouaquin almost two years ago at his father's home in Larkspur, CA. David Ames, Joaquin's beloved daddy and my soul-brother from another mother, peacefully transitioned onward in July 2008 after courageously living with ALS just over five years. Reflecting on the time I spent with David laughing, praying and singing, I can honestly say that I recognize him as one of my greatest teachers of unconditional faith, hope, gratitude and love.
From the first time I met Joaquin and his big sis Isabelle, I immediately felt a strong connection with them. I will forever be grateful that I had the opportunity to express the connection to David and promise him that I would always do my best to be in their lives as a friend and unconditional supporter. I let him know all the time (through prayer and meditation) how grateful I am to have these angels in my life as my big teachers in little packages!
Two years apart, Jouaquin and Issy vividly remind me of my big sis and me, when we were their age. Yet, when I spend time with them, I foget to notice their age just as I do when I spend time with nana and papa, despite their weakening bodies. Our spirits are connected and communicate to the best of our human abilities.
This last weekend in San Diego, Joaquin reminded me how to trust and let go of fear, when he decided he would shoot down the waterslide by himself (and w/o his floaties) for the first time! It was sooo exciting to experience his joy, enthusiasm and sense of growth!
By observing our youth, we are reminded of what life is like without filters, conformity and limitation. By oberseving our youth we re-learn how to live with excitement, joy and curiousity. Children are geniuses when it comes to growing! Why is that? They're passionate about life, learning, experiencing, loving and being loved. The whole life system was programmed in such a way that we would always be around children, especially at the precise moments we need to be reminded of the truths of life!